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Originally Posted by ReyRey
I was gonna respond...but then oxbox wrote this
Parents don't instill values, but the schools don't make kids tough anymore. Everybody's worried about hurting the kids' self esteems. No more losers, no one's better than anyone else...how else do you learn to strive for better if you don't learn that you aren't perfect just the way you are
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its the parents fault for any and every problem a child has. teachers are responsible for teaching and controlling the learning nothing more.
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Originally Posted by tx3nc
 I beat the stupid out of my kids.
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hey I didnt say you didnt, I know I will just because I know my kids will be just as stubborn as I was. Its funny because if you look at me, my brother and my sister, we all have the exact same personality, but we were raised differently. I grew up with jack squat in an 800 sq ft house in my grandparents backyard, I was homeschooled and played on 5 acres of woods and dirt, no video games, no computer and no cable tv. My parents beat my ass when I deserved it and gave me what rewards they could afford when I did something good, wich turned me into a stronger individual, I walk with my chin up and I'm confident and go for what I want yet I consider others and I take care of my family and friends. My brother started off being raised the same as me, but my parents inherited money built their own custom home with everything you could ever want and then started going soft... he got time-outs and was grounded, he was never beat, and sending him to his room meant he was grounded to a place with cable tv, a computer, internet and a game console. My parents also stopped rewarding good behavior and didnt really give him any posative affrimation, wich is why he's so quiet and shy and has zero confidence in himself. Now my sister... is a fucking brat. They do nothing but give her shit. They have a space underneath the stairs in her house thats the same size as my old bedroom was, and its full of fucking toys that are all hers and I mean fucking full, they dont disciplin her whatsoever, they just had shit over to her for no reason and if she doesnt get what she wants, she thows a fit untill she gets it.
/end long post with tmi about my effed up family