random thought thread

[B00STED4V]

Originally Posted by duckybubbles05_friend

my boyfriends being a jerk, we got into a fight saturday because it was 2 am, andrew(roommate) had guest over i was honry and wanted him to take a shower with me, he wont have sex with me if there are guest over.....ever...period no discussion....so that pissed me off, and he refuses to let me know why and all i get outta him is a "because i said so thats why"....and he has more time then i do to do anything, so i he does my laundry on mondays since he doest work at all on monday and wednesday and i work every single day of the week, well we got into a fight last night because i needed them done, and he wanted to work on his truck(mind you he has to go to his parents anyway to work on his truck so why not take my laundry with him??) and now tonight we are supposed to have date night, so i call him to have him go buy a cookie sheet cuz we cant find the one i bought, and he starts telling me how he filled his taxes, and how hes getting so and so back well i ask him if he could go ahead and do mine(which i figure is a reasonable request since he is so damned convinced we are getting married) and hes like no you do it, do it tonight after you we eat dinner(mind you i have to make it, and wont be home till at least 5, so we wont be back at his parents till like 8ish when his dad gets home, and his dad is supposed to be doing their taxes)i asked why, and he was like there are a bunch of random questions you have to answer, and i was like uhhh you cant just call me and ask me what the answers would be(he has both my w-2s already) and he was like nooo i dont want to, you do them they are your finances you deal with them they arnt my problem....so i got mad at that, and then he was like what are you going to do break up with me just cuz i wont file your taxes for you, to wich i responded you keep this attitude up any longer and i fucking will im tired of hearing that from you(he has used that line about 3 times this weekend with differnt reasons for breaking up with him....) grrr hes just fighting with me for no reason, i dunno hes just pissing me off....

then i got this one guy that wont leave me alone, wants me to break up with devin and get with him, guy is alot of fun, we have fun whenever i see him (every wednesday night while im at work) but this guy is like 47...hes old enough to be my dad, i just turned 20...no way in hell i will date a guy that old, i draw my line at being old enough to be my dad....

and then another guy last night told me that i was completly awesome, and he would date me in a second, and im probably the coolest girl he has ever met....but even if i was single he wouldnt date be because im 20, and i shouldnt be in a relationship and i should be having fun and he wouldnt want to tie me down like that...hes 25....guys boggle me sometimes....


i dunno every guy that i know is either pissing me off or confusing the fuck outta me...

*****RECAP*****
my boyfriend is a jerk, wont sleep with me cuz guest are over, is arguing about everything with me, and almost seems like hes trying to get me to break up with him, another guy wont back the fuck off hes a creepy old guy, and another guy thinks im the perfect girl for him but doesnt want to tie me down cuz i need to go out and have lots of fun and do thing i havent done...yet hes barely 5 years older then me... i hate men...

*****Answer*****

well, your boyfriend is being an ass, plain and simple. There should b eno reason for him acting like that... but he is. So he is either pissed at you for some undisclosed reason or he wants to break up with you since he's been useing that line so much in the past week. OR he could just be saying that so you suck up to him for the up coming "holiday".

the 47 year old at your work... tell him to fuck off, if he's fun, then cool he's fun, but just cause someon is "fun" doesn't mean shit. You don't know shit untill you actually date someone for a few weeks/months, meaning he could be fun now, but in after a few months pas... he could not be so "fun". not to mention the little fact the he's 27 years older than you sorry, no saggy balls please. if he wants to date you to make him self not feel so old, then thats sad... guy needs to get over it and fuckin get married. loser.

and the 25 year old guy saying "he would date you in a heart beat, but doesn't want to tie you down" means he doesn't really want to date you, he just wants to fuck you, either once or several times as a side item and probably wouldn't mind dateing you but might not feel comfortable dateing someone who is 5 years younger than him and when he could probably get someone his own age, maybe a little older with some more "experience"

thats all i got to say for right now

[Meghan]

Originally Posted by OxMox

*****Answer*****

well, your boyfriend is being an ass, plain and simple. There should b eno reason for him acting like that... but he is. So he is either pissed at you for some undisclosed reason or he wants to break up with you since he's been useing that line so much in the past week. OR he could just be saying that so you suck up to him for the up coming "holiday".

the 47 year old at your work... tell him to fuck off, if he's fun, then cool he's fun, but just cause someon is "fun" doesn't mean shit. You don't know shit untill you actually date someone for a few weeks/months, meaning he could be fun now, but in after a few months pas... he could not be so "fun". not to mention the little fact the he's 27 years older than you sorry, no saggy balls please. if he wants to date you to make him self not feel so old, then thats sad... guy needs to get over it and fuckin get married. loser.

and the 25 year old guy saying "he would date you in a heart beat, but doesn't want to tie you down" means he doesn't really want to date you, he just wants to fuck you, either once or several times as a side item and probably wouldn't mind dateing you but might not feel comfortable dateing someone who is 5 years younger than him and when he could probably get someone his own age, maybe a little older with some more "experience"

thats all i got to say for right now

boyfriend-hes being a jerk, and turned his phone off, so i cant call him, i was going to apologize for getting upset, but nooo nevermind, and dunno why he is sucking up, i told him that i didnt want anything for v-day and he wasnt going to get anything i hate the holiday and refuse to celebrate it....

the 47 yo-basically, he bowls in the league on wendesday night, awesome league awesome people, doods cool never would date him in the second if for nothing else than because he is over twice my age....thats just

and the 25 yo-yea i know that, but then why bull shit around and say all that,when you would say that to someoen who is single, and you have no chance with, if i was single id understand it, but im not, and he knows it...which is what i dont understand, plus if i was single id rather him just be like your hot, i want my penis in yoru vagina...and get it over with....but whatever...

[tx3nc]

Ox, you speak da troof.

[Meghan]

oxy is a smart man...

[B00STED4V]

Originally Posted by duckybubbles05_friend

boyfriend-hes being a jerk, and turned his phone off, so i cant call him, i was going to apologize for getting upset, but nooo nevermind, and dunno why he is sucking up, i told him that i didnt want anything for v-day and he wasnt going to get anything i hate the holiday and refuse to celebrate it....

the 47 yo-basically, he bowls in the league on wendesday night, awesome league awesome people, doods cool never would date him in the second if for nothing else than because he is over twice my age....thats just

and the 25 yo-yea i know that, but then why bull shit around and say all that,when you would say that to someoen who is single, and you have no chance with, if i was single id understand it, but im not, and he knows it...which is what i dont understand, plus if i was single id rather him just be like your hot, i want my penis in yoru vagina...and get it over with....but whatever...

Well then you should keep an eye on your b/f, if you're interested, simply cause he may be planning to break up with you or atleast the thought has crossed his mind. It just seems weird to me, his actions anyway, or maybe he just doesn't want to deal with your bitching while he's at home(if you're planing on bitching at him for being an ass) He just might not want to deal with you right now, which is totally understandable... but still...

+1 47 year old,

the 25 year old is just saying that cause he's hopeing to have a chance, maybe not now, but more than likely down the road... which depending on how things go with your b/f, is good or bad how ever you wanna look at it. But yeah it's just common sweet talk/please sleep with my desperate ass talk for most guys like that, i hear it alot from some f my friends.

Originally Posted by tx3nc

Ox, you speak da troof.

It helps when you're studying to be a Psychiatrist and your mother is already one.. not to mention being a guy and knowing how we think, lol

[tx3nc]

Nobody's floated the idea that the BF is cheating already?

[B00STED4V]

Originally Posted by tx3nc

Nobody's floated the idea that the BF is cheating already?

Oh, that was the first thing in my mind, but I wasn't sure if it was the right thing to suggest... that's why I just said she should keep an eye on him. Specially since he has off today and Wednesday, might not hurt if a friend of hers went over to there house... but that's her business

[madmatt]

While Id say that was possible, and that women would do that,


I dont think ANY guy, cheating or not, would turn down sex like he does.

Just a thought on the cheating idea...

[Meghan]

Originally Posted by OxMox

Well then you should keep an eye on your b/f, if you're interested, simply cause he may be planning to break up with you or atleast the thought has crossed his mind. It just seems weird to me, his actions anyway, or maybe he just doesn't want to deal with your bitching while he's at home(if you're planing on bitching at him for being an ass) He just might not want to deal with you right now, which is totally understandable... but still...

+1 47 year old,

the 25 year old is just saying that cause he's hopeing to have a chance, maybe not now, but more than likely down the road... which depending on how things go with your b/f, is good or bad how ever you wanna look at it. But yeah it's just common sweet talk/please sleep with my desperate ass talk for most guys like that, i hear it alot from some f my friends.




It helps when you're studying to be a Psychiatrist and your mother is already one.. not to mention being a guy and knowing how we think, lol

ehh he just called me, apparently it turned off while working on his jeep...which is totally likly...cuz he called me and ask if there was any certain type of cookie sheet i wanted...but ehh...i dunno....and im going to bitch at him tonight but i dont think he realizes im upset...

Originally Posted by tx3nc

Nobody's floated the idea that the BF is cheating already?

ehh ive had a couple people suggest thatbut i dunno...maybe

[B00STED4V]

Originally Posted by duckybubbles05_friend

ehh he just called me, apparently it turned off while working on his jeep...which is totally likly...cuz he called me and ask if there was any certain type of cookie sheet i wanted...but ehh...i dunno....and im going to bitch at him tonight but i dont think he realizes im upset...


ehh ive had a couple people suggest thatbut i dunno...maybe

LOL, sneak attack bitching ftl

you should never rule anyting out, if he's turning you down then that means he really just doesn't want to (again, likely) or he's getting it else where (also likely). But, you also don't want to judge to soon, you have to approach these kinda things with caution other wise you could really piss him off and if he wasn't cheating on you beforhand, then you better believe he will now, or atleast be thinking about it.


btw... you makeing cookies?

[madmatt]

Garlic bread oxbox

Pay attention

[B00STED4V]

Originally Posted by madmatt

Garlic bread oxbox

Pay attention

garlic bread

[Meghan]

yup chicken parmeasean, with spaghitti(sp) and garlic cheese bread...and we have a mutual friend living with us and he says devin is usually home or at work(they work together) soooi doubt hes cheating....and because of health issues specially when he was younger he has had to take steroids so he has low testosterone and so im assuming thats effection his sex drive.....he has Crohns fyi....

[stang_lover69]

Originally Posted by duckybubbles05_friend

yup chicken parmeasean, with spaghitti(sp) and garlic cheese bread...and we have a mutual friend living with us and he says devin is usually home or at work(they work together) soooi doubt hes cheating....and because of health issues specially when he was younger he has had to take steroids so he has low testosterone and so im assuming thats effection his sex drive.....he has Crohns fyi....

so...since you have a friend staying with you, does that count as company and you can't have sex?? cause i'd be like "fuck that noise".

[Meghan]

after much arguing about that when they both first moved in after i got rid of the old roommate, i finally convinced him that andrew doesnt count....i could understand if the company came over for him, and he invited them over, but he was already getting ready to go to bed, and the guest that were over came over because of andrew not him, its andrews job to keep them entertained...not devins, so i dunno...the no sex woudlnt be that big of a deal if we had sex other times, but we dont, and there is almost always somone over at some point...

[B00STED4V]

i'll have sex with ya

[stang_lover69]

Originally Posted by OxMox

i'll have sex with ya

[ReyRey]

Babe...it sounds like he's trying to get YOU to break up with HIM. you and I both know he doesn't have the balls to break up with you. and I don't think he's cheating on you, cuz quite frankly I dont' think he's capable of getting another girl. Do I think you're dating below your league? Yes. You bet your ass I do. Do I think you should dump him? Yes, abso-fuckin-lutely. But, I've said it once, I'll say it again: Your decisions are yours and I won't stand in the way of them...but I will vocalize my objections when I see fit

p.s. I can't wait to see you saturday!

[B00STED4V]

Yeah it does sound like he's trying to get her to breakup with him and that's a really passive move, which kinda fits from what she's said

[Hamburglar]

i like cheesy bread

[ReyRey]

mmm cheesey bread

[B00STED4V]

+1 cheesey garlic bread

[ReyRey]

oh now thats orgasmic

[Hamburglar]

a sandwich made with CGB

[B00STED4V]

Originally Posted by Hamburglar

a sandwich made with CGB

I make sammiches like that sometimes, there really good